Prerna Garg
How To Win A Boy’s Heart
It's fun to talk about boys. Boys with gorgeous eyes, groovy hair, cute smiles, rippled stomach muscles and a great gait. There comes a time in every girl's life when she is helplessly drawn to some guy. Hey girls, you can't be a silent spectator in the Cupid’s game. Turn your dreams into reality, but fear no rejection.
First of all, the guy must know you exist. ‘‘I don’t want a girl who no one has a clue about,’’ says Suresh. ‘‘But she should not be too possessive and start nagging,’’ cautions Ankit.
Girls, don't flirt too much; it might scare the guy off. You have to have that Lady-like charm. Greet him with an honest smile. “A captivating smile is what attracts me to a girl. Dimples would be like a cherry on the cake,” comments Anirudh.
Guys don’t like girls with oodles of make-up. Let him get a glimpse of the real you. Don't go overboard with the war-paint. Just try to look nice and clean. ‘‘Skin-show is a big turn-off,” thinks Jimmy. “I don’t want someone brand-crazy and my girl should know how to carry herself”.
Eyes are a great attraction. They can do wonders and can reveal the hidden layers of personality that words cannot. ‘‘Don't be afraid to look straight in the eyes. We guys love it,” admits Anwesh. “Her eyes should be full of life. Passionate eyes are what I want”.
A cheerful face lights up the heart. Most guys get bewitched by humor, one of the top five qualities they seek. “I wouldn’t like my girl to be a lachrymose or a sobbing machine. She should laugh heartily; cracking jokes win brownie points,” says Shray.
“A financially independent girl is an asset,’’ believes Gagan. ‘‘I wouldn’t like to date a girl who makes a dent into my pocket”.
Guys look for more than the exterior. “Intelligent talkers are always attractive. I don’t want an arm-candy who just looks beautiful but is empty-headed,” says Spandan. Girls, don’t play the doll. Believe in what you are and stand for it. Don't show jealousy, lest he should gauge your insecurity.
”Don’t fake. That’s the biggest turn off,’’ advises Abhishek. ‘‘After all, he will find his lady love in you’’.
How To Win A Girl’s Hand
Seen that girl with pearl-black eyes and flowing silky hair? A stunning figure with a disarming smile! Wondered how to get her attention! In fact, strange are the ways in which a girl’s mind works. Most guys have no clue about their enigma.
A strong personality attracts most girls. “I will choose a guy who has a mind of his own, knows exactly what he wants in life, and follow exactly what he wants, rather than someone who is passive and always acted upon,” opens up Priti. ‘‘He should be the one who captures instant attention,’’ adds Jhanvi.
Confidence is an instant winner. ‘‘I get attracted to guys who are positive and assertive. I keep away from boys who dither,’’ says Shruti. So boys, hold your head high, don’t fidget, and look straight into the eyes of girls, especially the one you wanted to woo.
Maturity brings rich dividends. “Drinking beer till it comes out of your ears and falling virtually dead on three pegs will turn you into a comedian, and distances yourself from your coveted love,’’ feels Megan, who has dumped half-a-dozen inebriated suitors.
A good sense of humour is an instant armour. ‘‘I am looking for a guy who can make me laugh at all times,’’ says Amrita who has an insatiable belly for laughter.
It’s a myth that girls prefer macho men, the opposite is the truth. ‘‘I want my guy to be sensitive, someone like Shahid Kapoor from Jab We Met!,” chips in Anuja. Perhaps a heady cocktail is what most girls find irresistible!
Opening up is the key to winning confidence. Open up when you have something nice to tell or something that upsets you; share your heart with her as a prelude to winning her. Then you will be surprised that she warms up to you. “When a guy tells me what he really feels, I will feel secure,” says Alisha.
Girls obviously go for good looks and a decent body, but surprisingly they come low on the list of priorities. ‘‘I don’t want my guy to be a Prince Charming; presentable looks are okay, says Joselyn.
So boys, put your worry behind, and focus on the things that matter to girls. Now that you know their minds better, floor the one you choose with your charisma and be her dream boy.
All the Best!
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